To Dare To See

These essays are based on over 40 years professional work and research with children who have experienced violence and abuse. The essays are about children, abuse, silence and the path back to safety.

Waking Up to See – Waking Up to Hear

When a Child’s Distress Becomes a Question for the Adult

An Unloved Child

When the Absence of Love Becomes a Form of Violence

When Care Fails a Child, But Does Not Disappear

In the ability to remain in uncertainty. To see what is there.
And still act.

Children Living with Domestic Violence

To stay human in the presence of another human being—
and not turn away.

Daring to Ask

When Fear Silences—and Safety Makes Speech Possible